Many times, couple that visit therapists complain about the lack of option when it comes to doing something with their other half. As a fact, there are many types of research available that back this up. Many times, you feel like there is nothing available to do to entertain yourself. However, that’s not the case. It is just the routine making things feel boring.
I decided to create this guide to help other couples that may struggle with this. Therefore, these are our suggestions:
Buy a new gadget
Buying a new gadget can be a pleasant experience in a relationship. Just make sure to buy something that both can use. A friendly couple recently bought a new hookah. Since they got it they are hooked on it. Be careful, shisha or hookah can be harmful to your health. Therefore, if you are not smoking find something else that can entertain you. Some other suggestions can be tablets, tv boxes, scooters etc.
Working and event entertainment require us to be connected to our “smart” devices 24/7. Taking some time to unplug could be beneficial. If you feel burned out then this is our best suggestion to you. But, you have to commit to this commitment. Unplug means to leave your electronic devices at home. If you cannot leave them at home (because of children, family or in case of emergency) make sure to keep your promise and don’t use them for random stuff like scrolling down on your newsfeed.
Take a short/long trip
Taking a short or even a longer trip is beneficial. The benefits of traveling are countless and so the benefits of it in your relationship. Couples that travel often together tend to have better communication and a lot of other benefits such as sexual relationships as this survey claims.
Another benefit of taking short or long trips with your husband or wife is that the couple’s sense of humor and taste is built together. Also, traveling encourages mindful lives.
This video is a great resource for tips that couples need to focus on: